Relationship Quiz
Please check all that apply to you and your relationship.
| When you and your partner are together, s/he calls you names, puts you down in front of other people. | |
| Your partner puts you down and calls you names when you are alone. | |
| Your partner tells you what clothes to wear. | |
| Your partner tells you what friends you can see. | |
| Your partner acts extremely jealous when you talk to other boys/girls, even when it is completely innocent. | |
| You have to check in with your partner at certain times. | |
| Your partner is always checking up on you, calling or texting you, and demanding to know where you have been and whom you have been with. | |
| You seem to worry about upsetting your partner or making him/her angry. | |
| You are giving things up that are important to you, such as spending time with friends or other activities, and are becoming more isolated. | |
| Your partner may threaten to hurt him/herself if you ever leave the relationship. Your partner say things such as: "I'm nothing without you," or "You are my whole world." | |
| Your partner has dramatic mood swings from being jealous, controlling or angry to being sweet, charming and loving. | |
| Your partner may get "too angry." Your partner hits walls, yells loudly, calls you names, or actually threatens others with violence. | |
| Your partner slaps, shoves, hits or kicks you. |
If you have checked some of the statements above, your relationship is unhealthy and may be abusive. Specially trained counselors are available on the 24-hour helpline to discuss your quiz answers and offer support. They can also tell you about available counseling services, if and when you are ready.
