Children's Services

In recognition of the agency’s 35^th Anniversary, the Safe House children created a giant Wishing Cake with 35 candles and wishes. The children identified typical child birthday wishes and those that are more representative of their family situation while acknowledging their current crisis and period of transition. For example, in the photo here, children wish "to be safe, "no hurting in family," and for "more toys for my sister."

First, the children created the candles and made wishes. Being able to make a wish gave the children permission to verbalize some material things they may want or changes they would like in their families. They enjoyed searching through the box a stickers to find pictures that matched their wishes. Afterwards, the kids had a great time decorating the cake with bright colors and shapes.

Our services

JBWS provides a structured and predictable environment for children who have witnessed domestic violence. This reduces their anxiety by providing a sense of "routine" so they know what to expect. Mothers are given the help and support that they need to be effective parents in the midst of a crisis.

We strive to break the inter-generational cycle of violence by teaching alternatives to violence. We help the children acquire or improve conflict-resolution skills and use non-violent forms of play. And, of course, we give the children the opportunity to tell their own story. We use age-appropriate methods to let the children express themselves. For example, the younger children are asked to write their worries on a self-crafted "Worry Bee" and the things they enjoy on a "Happiness Flower". Such activities give them the opportunity to diffuse any feelings of guilt, anger, sadness or confusion through a structured medium. Children in the program range in age from infants to teenagers.

If you are concerned about a child and would like to learn more about the effects of abuse on children, please call the helpline for assistance.